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Kick your fiction fears to the curb

I recently met Lara Schiffbauer online and we instantly clicked. We exchanged many emails and quickly decided to exchange guest blogs. She is the voice behind the Motivation for Creation blog. Lara is a positive and generous voice in the blogosphere (she shared my Dear Loved One last week). She keeps a positive attitude even when life gets a little “dark and hairy.” Lara writes about goals and internet relationships, passion and time management, and her Funny Friday Photos are a hoot!

Please welcome Lara Schiffbauer and her “Fiction Fears.”

Fiction Fears, by Lara Schiffbauer

The human imagination is amazing.  Nigel Thomas, PhD, philosopher, cognitive scientist, and historian of science and psychology wrote a fabulous definition of imagination.  It’s a tad medical, but I particularly like the last line.

“Imagination is what makes our sensory experience meaningful…  It also produces mental imagery, visual and otherwise, which is what makes it possible for us to think outside the confines of our present perceptual reality, to consider memories of the past and possibilities for the future, and to weigh alternatives against one another. Thus, imagination makes possible all our thinking about what is, what has been, and, perhaps most important, what might be.”

It is our imagination which gives meaning to our experience.  We need our imagination to re-experience our past, and to decide our personal future.  Not only that, but our imagination works the same way when we write.  It allows us to call upon our past experiences and weave them into alternate realities also known as stories.

I have a great story idea involving aliens.  I don’t really have a specific type of alien in mind, but since the aliens are the bad guys, they probably resemble the “Greys” from Whitley Strieber’s Communion.

I think it’s safe to say I have a phobia of those little guys.  I don’t know why, other than when I was six-ish years old, I watched alien shows on the television, and they definitely scared me.  For a really long time, I wasn’t able to watch Close Encounters of the Third Kind without having an anxiety attack, especially at the scene when the aliens take the little boy.  When I was a teenager, an uncle hinted that I may have been abducted some time in my past.  I think he was trying to scare me. He succeeded, and I think made my phobia worse.

When I started writing several years ago, I hadn’t seen a whole bunch of stories about aliens in the contemporary world, so I thought I’d give writing an alien short story a try.  I figured that since I can now watch Close Encounters of the Third Kind without needing a paper bag to breath into, and even like the aliens at the end of the movie, I’d be fine.

Nope.

I tried twice to write two different short stories.  I started with one where the aliens come for a visit, and ended up freaking myself out enough that when my husband went out of town, I pushed a chair against the door so that if anyone (thing!) came in, I could at least hear it coming.  I also let the dog sleep in the bedroom with me.

Feeling extremely foolish, I thought that maybe my absurd reaction was because I wrote about the actual aliens.  Determined to not give in to fear, I decided to attempt another story about a man who had been abducted, but wouldn’t necessarily write about the aliens.  I ended up with nightmares where I was being abducted.  Thus ended my attempts at writing about aliens.

The nice thing is that I know I’m not alone.  Just last night on twitter, I read a tweet from a woman who was writing on her work in progress that has a demon in it, and when she heard a noise in the dark, got scared and had to check it out.

Most writers have super-active imaginations, which is what makes us great story tellers.  It is an amazing gift, but also a potential curse when we delve into those darker emotions and memories.  In order to be the best story teller I can be, I will take the bad with the good.  And in the interest of my personal mental health, I’ll stay away from writing stories about aliens.

How about you?  Have you ever scared yourself with your writing, or drudged up emotions you preferred to leave locked away?

Lara Schiffbauer

Lara Schiffbauer is a writer, licensed clinical social worker, mother of two, wife of one, and a stubborn optimist.  She loves Star Wars, Lego people, science, everyday magic and to laugh.  You can contact her at laschiff(at)ymail(dot)com, direct message her on Twitter at @LASbauer, at  Linked In or on her blog, Lara Schiffbauer’s Motivation For Creation.

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